where are you at right now?

your next step depends on where you are in the pattern. choose the path that feels most like you.

still focused on them

i can't stop trying to understand them.

i'm exhausted from analyzing their behaviour, searching for answers, and wondering if they'll ever choose me.

i need to understand what's actually happening.

show me why this keeps happening
ready to focus on me

i'm tired of losing myself.

i've spent so much time trying to make this relationship work that somewhere along the way I lost myself.

i'm ready to understand why I keep putting everyone else before me.

show me how to find myself again